online community

soberIRL has a digital community available to you when you need it. Let’s face it, living an alcohol-free life has its perks. But there’s also some bummers, but knowing you have a whole sober squad cheering you on makes life that much better.

The digital community is an invite-only social network for soberIRL. No need to connect to your Facebook or Instagram accounts and avoid a million pings in a group thread. This is the go-to spot to stay connected in between events.

✨  want some advice on how to turn down happy hour?

✨  have an article you want to discuss?

✨  looking for a buddy to go to an event?

✨  this is the place to do it all with your alcohol-free friends!


In order to make the digital space as valuable, authentic, and safe as possible there are a couple community guidelines:

1. Be supportive. Encourage and support your fellow community members. No one should be worried about criticism, cynicism, or judgement. We can get all those those things and more everywhere else on internet. πŸ˜‰

2. Share generously. Your stories and experiences may be exactly what another person needs to hear today. Not to mention, it can especially be valuable to you to release your thoughts in a safe space with people who get it.

3. Be constructive. We’re here to support and lift each other up. If someone is looking to vent frustrations, let them. If someone is looking to get advice, offer your perspective.

4. Don’t be under the influence. This is a safe space where alcohol is not welcome. This isn’t the place to post triggering photos or type out drunkalogues.

At the end of the day, this is a community for each and all of us. Every interaction β€” whether you’re starting a new topic, cheering on a post, or welcoming a new member β€” is important.

πŸ‘‰ ok, ready to see for yourself and browse around?  click here to get started. πŸ‘ˆ